Spicy Positions from “Fifty Shades of Grey” to Awaken Your Inner Goddess

Debates about the novel “Fifty Shades of Grey” and its movie adaptation continue to spark discussions. Naturally, avid fans dream of stepping into the roles of Anastasia or Christian. Today, we’ll help you bring this erotic fantasy to life by showcasing the best BDSM-inspired positions for beginners.

Prelude with Handcuffs
What could be more erotic than a partner whose hands are bound to the headboard? In this scenario, one partner gains complete control over the other. But what should you do with this power? Enjoy it, of course!

Cuff or tie your man to the bed, straddle him in the cowgirl position, but don’t let him enter you. Instead, caress and touch yourself in a way that he can see. In less than five minutes, he’ll be begging you to ride him. But don’t rush to fulfill his desire—relish how he writhes beneath you, filled with anticipation. Let him “earn” it first by doing something special for you, like cunnilingus.

Desk Durability Test
Who hasn’t fantasized about having sex on a work desk? Office supplies and papers swept to the floor with a single motion, a man sharply pushing his partner onto the desk and tearing off her clothes. The woman’s head may hang off the edge, enhancing the sensation as blood rushes to her brain with each thrust. Such rough sex excites both partners and guarantees an intense climax. The main rule, however, is spontaneity. Share this fantasy with your man, and he will surely make it come true, perhaps right when you reveal your desire.

**Hands Up!**
Starting position: The woman sits on a sofa or chair with her legs apart. The man kneels on the floor and, holding the woman by the hips, enters her. “Nothing special,” you might say? Now try this with your hands raised above your head!

At first, it will seem easy, but within a couple of minutes, you’ll want to lower your hands. The challenge isn’t so much in keeping your arms raised as it is resisting the urge to touch your partner during sex. If your partner ties your hands with a silk bondage ribbon, leaving no chance for retreat, you’ll feel even more pleasure from the helplessness and longing to touch your man.

If you want to experience this intense desire, ask your partner to bind you to the bed. Let him tease you, nibble your nipples, touch the hottest areas of your body with his tongue or a vibrator, and just when you’re on the brink of orgasm, stop abruptly. You’ll beg him to continue, willing to do anything for the pleasure.

Bind Me Gently
If you’re looking to try rougher sex but fear you might not like it, start small. For example, begin with the classic missionary position with one twist: the man pins your arms to the bed. A more enticing but slightly rougher variation for beginners is the doggy style position, where the woman arches her back, and the man holds her hands (or hair, if possible). Yes, even more submission!

For a bolder experience, consider restraints like cuffs, shackles, ropes, and other bondage tools. Erotic binding is an art form that elicits a lot of emotion from both partners; like any art, it requires learning. But what if your partner doesn’t know how to tie knots? Use bondage kits and remember that you can restrain more than just arms and legs—blindfolds can add to the experience. Ask your partner to blindfold you or put on a mask, and every touch will feel twice as pleasurable.

Heat Me Up, Cool Me Down, Spank Me!
Even regular sex without any restraints can feel rough with just a couple of additions: an ice cube and a wax candle. Let your partner play with temperature on your erogenous zones—trace an ice cube along your nipples, drip wax down your chest... but be careful with the candle to avoid burning the skin. We recommend starting with warming gels and lubricants for a safer but equally intense effect.

Warming up desire isn’t limited to wax—spanking can do the trick, too. Even women who aren’t into BDSM often enjoy a light spanking. Soft, painless spanks will enhance your libido, especially if you’ve been “naughty” lately. New toys in the bedroom, such as a soft flogger, short crop, or paddle, can be used on yourself or your partner. The nerve endings on the buttocks respond even to the lightest spanking.

So, is your Inner Goddess already tingling with excitement and anticipation? Choose accessories from the “Fifty Shades of Grey” collection and dive into bringing your erotic fantasies to life!