Shedding Taboos: Why do you need a Sex Toy

In the United States, over half of women utilize sex toys. However, it would be incorrect to assume that societal biases against them have completely disappeared. Common statements such as "regular people don't need these things" or "if you use a vibrator, does it mean you don't want me" highlight the stigma still associated with using sexual aids. Even something as simple as lubricant may be viewed as being exclusively for sex workers.

In 2019, the journal Obstetrics & Gynecology published a comprehensive review of sexual devices aimed at professionals in women's health. The scientific community recognizes the numerous benefits of using sex toys, not just for pelvic floor muscle training. Yet, the journal Nature Reviews Urology also acknowledges that discussing sex toys is still considered taboo by some specialists. Having an open discussion about the potential of these devices can greatly improve a patient's overall sexual satisfaction and well-being. These innovative tools are specifically designed to enhance our sexual experiences, increase pleasure, and promote a more liberated view towards sexuality.

In certain situations, using sex devices is essential for a fulfilling sexual experience.

Pregnancy and childbirth can cause a decrease in natural vaginal lubrication, making sex uncomfortable or painful. "Obstetrics and Gynecology" recommends using intimate lubricant to make the experience more pleasant. Often, pregnant or postpartum women are advised to avoid penetrative sex, but clitoral stimulators can provide pleasure with minimal effort and quick results.

Sometimes, pleasure can be difficult to achieve. These challenges can vary greatly, from occasional stress to a lack of sexual pleasure due to medication or physical injury. In these cases, doctors may suggest using sex toys to help improve sensitivity and enhance genital arousal.

Using sex devices can enhance pleasure during partner sex. Items like erection rings help maintain an erection, stimulating lubes can speed up orgasms, and strap-ons allow for simulated penetration if desired.

For those with joint issues or chronic illnesses that limit mobility, vibrators can be a helpful tool in achieving orgasm without exerting too much physical effort. Medical professionals are also recognizing the positive impact of sex toys on women with cancer, acknowledging their need for a fulfilling sex life while battling illness.

Vaginismus causes spasms in the pelvic floor muscles, making penetrative stimulation painful. Luckily, non-contact stimulators and clitoral vibrators can provide relief and pleasure.

During menopause, the decrease in estrogen levels can impact libido, genital sensitivity, and natural lubrication. Using lubricant and sex toys can make pleasure easier and more enjoyable during this time.